There are many cases we will encounter people with bad attitude during our daily lives. So how are we supposed to deal with that? To do it we should try to understand why they behave like that. The reasons could be in bad mood, difficult situation, dilemma or undesired condtion. They may have been treated unfairly as well. Hence, we need to prevent these negative factors from spreading to us. The following are the ways I figure out to deal with people of such attitude:
1. Call it a stop
You are not supposed to be a victim of mental bullying. So you have to let that person know that. You may do something that catch his/her attention. Then telling that person it is no use to behave in this way because such behaviour won't do anyone good.
2.Challeging them with questions
Ask "Are you sure that is really what you want?" or "What is the point of doing that?"You need to gain the control of the whole situation and show that you should be treated fairly before you bring on a threat of taking some antogonistics actions.
3.Telling them what you can do for them. Then asking them to do something easily achievable. So your great attitude and praise to them. By doing so, you hope they will get out of negative feeling and thinking.
All these are the methods I could thought of currently. The most imporatnt thing is not to turn yourself into someone you do not like at all.
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