dealing with negative(bad) attitude

There are many cases we will encounter people with bad attitude during our daily lives. So how are we supposed to deal with that? To do it we should try to understand why they behave like that. The reasons could be in bad mood, difficult situation, dilemma or undesired condtion. They may have been treated unfairly as well. Hence, we need to prevent these negative factors from spreading to us. The following are the ways I figure out to deal with people of such attitude:

1. Call it a stop
You are not supposed to be a victim of mental bullying. So you have to let that person know that. You may do something that catch his/her attention. Then telling that person it is no use to behave in this way because such behaviour won't do anyone good.

2.Challeging them with questions
Ask "Are you sure that is really what you want?" or "What is the point of doing that?"You need to gain the control of the whole situation and show that you should be treated fairly before you bring on a threat of taking some antogonistics actions.

3.Telling them what you can do for them. Then asking them to do something easily achievable. So your great attitude and praise to them. By doing so, you hope they will get out of negative feeling and thinking.

All these are the methods I could thought of currently. The most imporatnt thing is not to turn yourself into someone you do not like at all.

In Malaysia

PSS team in Lonza, Slough

I finally returned to my own home in JB after 1.5year in UK. Although this is the 7th day since I returned, I still pushing myself to readapt to the temperature, language and mosquitoes here. Sometimes, I would be missing those colleagues in the company there, those friends that I met in table tennis club and those from Imperial college(I am not student there).

I admit that my own home is definitely more comfortable. But somehow, I have get used to a lot of changes recently. Futhermore, the new house does not progress as I dream of. Sometimes, it is just too difficult to plan what I want to do for my new room. Even while I was choosing furniture, I have to choose from the shop my family placed order from. Otherwise there will be a lot of logistics problem, I may not be able to move over in time. Besides that, I have also heard something was not done as it should be by the person I trusted a lot. So that is life, not everything can be perfect. I wonder how much extra money my brother and sister -in-laws have to put in for this new house.